Anonymous said: My best friend was talking to my ex a week after he had dump me. When we're together everyone would tell me hey watch it but I tell them no, she's my best friend she wouldn't do that to me. The week after we broke up I hear that she had kiss him. Plus this is the second time she done this to me. Should I forgive her ?
No, I don’t think that you should forgive her. Now does that mean you should forever hold a grudge against her? No, of course not. But that’s not the kind of person that you want as your best friend. I think that you should reexamine the friendship that you two have and see if she’s really being a good friend to you because just hearing this, it doesn’t seem like it to me.
Anonymous said: I'm a guy, and my bff is a girl, the problem is that she's now hanging out more with another guy for like three weeks now, I talked to her about it, she said that i'm just being jealous, she even sent the other guy a message saying that I'm her bff and not him and showed it to me to prove that she prefers me, but it still bothers me, and she's being ditching me at school the last two days :S , what do you think I should do?
When it really comes down to it, you don’t know what her relationship with this other guy is. They could be dating and if you’re not romantically involved with her then you would have to respect their relationship. But if you really are her best friend then you just need to sit down and have a serious talk with her about where you stand with her and where she stands with this other guy. It’s always easier (and certainly a lot less messy) if you put it all out into the open like that.
About the ditching you at school thing, I think you just need to confront her. Maybe she doesn’t realize that she’s neglecting your friendship and just needs a friendly reminder to spend more time with you. Or maybe she’s not the friend you thought she was. Either way, you’ll never know if you just sit back worrying about it.
Anonymous said: What is the definition of best friends ?
I could say that a best friend is the person that you do everything with and you guys spend all of your time together. Maybe someone that you can tell your secrets to and trust that they will be kept. Or maybe it’s the person you call when you’re crying in the middle of the night; your “4am”.
And it is ALL of those things, but really a best friend is just the person who you’re closest with.
I’d just like to give a shout out to one of the other great best friend blogs on Tumblr dear-best—friend.tumblr.com
Defintely check them out!
Hey guys I’m going through my submissions as of now since I haven’t been on in a while. Then I’m going to answer my asks and probably make a few more “Things That Best Friends Do”.